Encouraging Words

The Bible shows us how to use speech as a positive tool to strengthen and build long lasting relationships with others, while spreading God's way of life through our words. Positive speech can cheer up sadness (Proverbs 12:25) and bring joy (Proverbs 15:23.) Rash or wreckless words act like sword thrusts (Provers 12:18) and gossip can ruin friendships (Proverbs 16:28.) When we use words appropiately, they are like "apples of gold in setting of silver" (Proverbs 25:11) and a "honeycomb that brings sweetness to the soul and health to the bones" (Proverbs 16:24.)

The ability to choose what we say to others is one of the most precious gifts, that God has given us, yet the human capacity to use speech to inflict pain is one of the most dangerous weapons we possess. Knowing what we say and when and hot to say it takes wisdom. Being able to control our speech is equvialent to keeping the "whole body in check" and is described as "perfect." As we strive for the same perfection as our heavenly Father (Matthew 5:48) we need to make careful choices in how we use speech.

As a young Christian, I have found that even if there aren't many physical opportunities to serve, I can usually contribute by offering encouraging words of appreciation to those who work behind the scenes. Many of these people do not receive recognition or thanks very often.